Bj for sex?

Question

Ok so I've been asking my SO for the past 4 nights to have sex with me and he keeps rejecting me so I asked him about it and he said he's not having sex with me till I suck his dick he said I know what I need and have to do is that wrong it wasn't even in a sexy sexual way it was more of a demand like a chore I guess mind you hes been a jerk to me for the past week he shoved me into a wall and expects me to suck his dick who's wrong here
Sometimes dicks are better than fingers and toys

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Why would you want to have sex with him if he was acting that way BEFORE he even demanded a BJ?

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I think you know who's in the wrong there. 
I know what I'm about to say is going to sound insensitive but I grew up in a very abusive home so I've been able to learn a lot. ONLY YOU CAN HELP YOURSELF, get off the ground if you don't wanna be a doormat. We have a tendency to play victim and see the other person as this big evil monster while we look for sympathy instead of looking for a way out.

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It’s emotional blackmail to withhold sex (mutual enjoyment) for payment of a sexual favor in return. He’s a jerk!

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He shoved you into a wall? No girl, leave him 🤷🏼‍♀️

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I would’ve left as soon as he shoved me into a wall.

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LEAVE HIM !!

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i’d be like no you suck my dick. who does he think he is

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you need to leave him!! he might “love” you, but if he’s physically hurting you in any way that is a huge red flag of an abuser and you need to get tf out.

Bj for sex?

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