Hi ladies. I'm kind of in a bind and I REALLY need advice. It's my first time moving out and my cousin wants me to get a 2 bedroom with her. She needs to be out of her room by the 28th of September as she has an event out of state to attend. I can't move till the 1st. She's been looking for apartments and found one she likes, I haven't seen it. I work during the week till 5, she has a more flexible schedule. She's been telling me we need to move fast because she has to be out. She asked when I was available to see the unit, I told her after 5 on weekends but I needed to talk to my family first. She called me yesterday at 4:45 saying I need to be at the property by 6. I can't make it out that fast with traffic and I told her so. I called the apartment owner and explained the situation, he said he was fine with me coming out any time that works best for me. I set up something for a better time. Meanwhile my family is FURIOUS that my cousin gave me less than an hours notice to meet and see an apartment and said I need to demand that we work out something that works with my schedule too.

My cousin called me back really angry saying i need to hurry up and hustle and get my stuff and come out to meet this man. I had some questions but not everything I wanted ready and when i told her i set up a separate meeting she lost it. Went crazy saying she doesn't have a lot of time and i need to move quick and that I'm being selfish af. Said she wants to move in by Monday if everything works out and I'm blocking this for no reason. I feel trapped and backed into a corner. What if I hate this place? What if this is how she behaves if things don't work out in the future? My family is saying she's essentially holding a gun to my head because she has a strict timeline and I don't and is trying to force the issue. I'm starting to wonder if I should even move in with her, but if I tell her no, she might never speak to me again. And I don't know what to do.

**Edit** I feel bad because she started crying and saying she's always been there encouraging me which is true and I'm grateful for it.....but I also don't want to be forced into a situation that could have really bad consequences for years to come!