9 days late

Nicole

So.....I'm 9 days late on my period. And about 1 1/2- 2 weeks ago it felt like we popped something during sex. I bled a little bit and it stopped. The next few days I discharged some flesh looking substance. Anyone have any ideas? I don't want to get my hopes up....but I really want to be pregnant. This would be my first time ever. What are the signs? What do I do? When do I do tests and stuff?