I need help or advice and to vent a bit. My husband has delayed ejaculation. Which means he doesn't have an orgasm when we are having sex. Hes had this problem for years even before we got together. We have been trying to have kids for about a year. During this time he has ejaculated 2 times which is more than he usually does in a year. I am having a hard time because we see all these people and his cousin who is the same age as us is having his 2nd on mine and my husbands Anniversary. I am trying to be happy for them but I never thought that we would be in this position. Where we want and have this need for children and we are having the worse time getting there. I just needed to vent I guess and this isnt something I can really talk to either of our families about.