with my first, I had a ton of stuff...only to not use ANY of it. I didn't have the energy to do makeup, shower, or even brush my hair. I had been awake for nearly 3 days when daughter was born and was near comatose after, spending the next 72 hours almost constantly asleep. I'd pass out, wake up to people, pass back out minutes later, wake up to different people, repeat over and over. I'm hoping I'll have more energy this time, I KNOW we will have less visitors but I'm already anxious and ready to pack my bags