First time TTC... advices ?

Marie-Hélène

Hey ladies!

I’ve always wanted to be a mom, it is my deepest and most important life goal I want to achieve. I’m 28 and have been with my husband for 11yrs now (married for 3). I studied for a while (2post-graduate degrees) and got my dream job but temp status for the last 2 yrs, so it was never « a good timing » before that (afraid that getting pregnant during my contract might prevent me from getting permanent..ugh!). Now I finally got my permanent status at that dream job, nothing is stopping us...yay!

So now it is our first month trying to conceive. Since I have been waiting for so long to do this, I don’t have any patience left 😅. I dream about it almost every night, my favorite bloggers all recently gave birth, a few of my friends gave birth last year...I just always think about it..! I need your help to give me tricks to manage my expectations... I know it will probably take a few months... I am a high achiever, I am putting a lot of pressure on myself... please, any advices/mental coaching ? Thanks!!