2 months ago I moved across the country leaving a toxic relationship to be with family. In the state I live in now you need a car to get around and where I use to live before you don’t. I’m from NYC. Since I been here I have been trying to get a job walking distance there’s a shopping center 4 miles away that I walked to in the blazing heat and I applied to every single store and got none some were simply because I don’t drive. Recently my family has been pressuring me to get a job and they think all I do is sit in the house and do nothing all day mind you I’m in school too I take online classes. Today my aunt takes my little cousin to driving lessons and I’m thinking why wouldn’t she take me too since she wants me to work so bad. Also a month ago I met this guy online didn’t expect anything to come out of it but we developed feeling for each other and I tell him everything going on in my family and that I think I should go back to NY stay in a homeless shelter until I get my old job back and save a few checks until I get my own place and get back on my feet. But he was not having me leave him so he suggested that I should try applying to job around where he lives and he and his mom talked and that they agreed to help find a job take me to job interviews and to and from work until I can get there on my own. Now my family is mad they’re helping me simply because we barely know each other. I understand that but they have to understand I’m doing what I need to do to better myself because my own family don’t want to help me become better