Toddler trouble! Advice, tips, anything!

Je

On Tuesday the 25th, I will be having my 2nd baby boy via csection and I have a 2 year old boy already. I'm positive he's in his "terrible two's" and he's just so unpredictable and hasn't been minding very well but then on the other hand he can be so sweet and helpful. Basically he's like a sour patch kid right now and I'm praying it's just this stage he's in at the moment. He's very rambunctious lately and tantrums are normal I know. BUT anyway, It's hard lately to have him listen/behave for me or his dad, and we have tried everything by showing more empathy because I know he's not able to fully express his feelings in the right ways and that's what I'm trying to show him. I just wonder what I'm doing wrong? I think about everything I can do to make this easier, what does he need, want, feel etc. More attention, something to do or somone to play with, anything I've tried it. I love him so much and he's always been mama's boy and I take itpersonally how mean of a baby he's been lately and I honestly get my feelings hurt by this two year old's behavior...😂😓

But my biggest worry, is this gonna be worse when the baby is here, or will it make a difference? How do other mamas make it through this stage & make it look so easy?