Trying for child number 2

Mimi

We have a wonderful three year old and I thought “oh hey! We had one baby so having a second should come easily” it’s been 9 months of trying and still no pregnancy. Ugh. I put so much pressure on myself and it’s so hard to relax about it. I shouldn’t have told family we are trying to conceive again. Took 6 months to make our first child. Every month that goes by I’m like, is it me? Is it him? Are we trying at the right time.