What should I do??

Em

my bd and I were on good terms, me n baby moved (long story) and I broke up w him after I found out he was going to parties and ‘selling pizzas’ my 🍑 well I went MIA, stayed off social media n didn’t talk to anybody n TWO DAYS after I broke up w him he meets somebody else...a girl that’s 2 years older then him wtf?.... they dated for 3 whole days and are now incarcerated for a few years...my family dislikes him but damn my family dislikes his whole family.... ?? They talk shit about him and his family but honestly I got to know him waaay better then anybody else did. I get where he comes from but it bothers me that everybody talks shit about him n his family #NOBODYISPERFECT I mean I still wonna smack that fool stupid but how do I tell my family to chill. That’s MY baby’s dad! he’s gonna be in my n my baby’s life regardless.

I’m not worried about relationships rn, just the fact that every time I talk to my family or see them they always have to bring my bd up like I get it, I know what he did to get incarcerated was awful, I’m obviously not talking to him until he gets out so he can learn his lesson. But it’s EVERYTIME I talk to somebody in my family they just talk about what a dumbass he is.. If I was worried about him I would be defending him but I’m not I just sit there and listen to them talk shit. I wish they could understand that talking about him reminds me how upset I am towards him