Everytime I suggest doing something, like coming to bed, my boyfriend all of a sudden has tons of stuff to do after sitting around all day... Its now been 50 minutes of him sitting on the toilet in the bathroom playing a stupid game at 5am instead of coming to bed.

Its so annoying. He has the worst time management i’ve ever seen exist in my entire life. Its like dealing with a toddler, badgering them to do something until they do it.. It sucks that this 46 year old man is not mentally nor physically capable to keep track of time in any way, nor can he prioritize. He spends an accumulative of 3.5 hours (minimum) a day in the bathroom. He decides to do the right things at completely wrong times. I dont know how to reconcile this... Sometimes he will even just stand around, lingering for 15-20 minutes in the same exact spot on his phone, and when you try to speak to him, he is immediately irritated, sometimes throws his phone bc what he was doing was “important” ... It really sucks.