Husband cuts off babymaking until I get "healthy."

Nik

Has anyone else ever experienced this? About 3 months ago, my husband and I began TTC. No success so far, but I have noticed that I have gained weight during these last 3 months. Anyone experience this while TTC? U haven't changrd ny normal routine. I am 32 years old, 5'9" and currently weigh about 190. Do I like that number? Hell no! And because I don't want to gain any more, I had started looking up boot camps in the area where we live. I've done a bootcamp before with great results and HIIT works best for me.

Now, I will admit, I have worked out on and off for the past few years and nothing has really stuck with me. I can go months with consistently training and then one day just stop and have to start back over again a few months later. It doesn't help that I travel for work, sometimes weekly, and that throws off my workout routine. Especially since work travel consists of constant early mornings and late nights coupled with going out to eat or sometimes eating junk on the go.

Anyway, a few days ago, I mentioned to my husband that I wanted to go to a local bootcamp. I was hesitant to say anything because he is not a fan regardless of how much weight I lose. As expected, he is not receptive to it at all (he thinks working out at that intensity 5 days a week is excessive) and because of his response, I was angry and didn't want to argue with him in public so I came home, ate and went straight to sleep without saying two words you him. I wake up the next day and he is pissed. As we're getting dressed for work, he tells me, "I think we should stop trying to have a baby because it would be a disservice to bring a child into this world while you're not healthy." Never mind that we were just trying a couole days before this statement. He also says that he "supports" me doing a bootcamp, but my exercise routine is "revolving door" and wants to know what my plans are when I can't go to bootcamp or what I'll do when I'm traveling or what will happen if becomes to expensive?

Honestly, I regret telling him anything. If I had known it was going to turn into this huge thing, I wouldn't have said. anything. I even told him that. I'm going to do the bootcamp anyway because I actually enjoy that crazy shit and I'll just cut out some other fun stuff to pay for it if costs becomes an issue. My only concern now is dealing with his attitude when I come home from bootcamp 5 days a week. Smh...what kind of husband wants his wife to get healthy, but only how he thinks she should get healthy? Lastly, I'm posting this photo to give you guys an idea of what I look like.