Why don’t men rub our backs!

Question

Cmon, I mean. I woke up early and brought him coffee in bed and made him breakfast! Then when I ask for a back massage he says “How about I promise you one for tomorrow.”??
Noooo no no no! I make you things and bring you things from the kindness of my heart and you limp handedly brush over my back skin like you’re shooing away flies!
Is it just me? 🤣
EDIT: I just want to clarify! I definitely don’t mean this is a spiteful way! I just find it a bit humorous! My boyfriend loves me very much, it’s just hilarious to me how ALOT of men are the same way 😊

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My husband is the same!!!
I usually ask, “what can I do for you to earn a back rub?” Thinking like, if I give him a blowjob or cook him a nice meal or let him pick the movie, he’ll rub my back.
He always goes, “you don’t have to do anything for me, I’ll rub your back. Just give me an hour...”
Then when I do ask he’s always too tired or too sore, or it’s Friday and he’s had a long week, or it’s Monday and he’s in a bad mood, or his arms hurt, or his stomach hurts... literally any excuse! 😂

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My husband attempts back rubs, but they always turn him on too much. they always end up being butt rubs because he'll end up rubbing lower and lower until it's just my butt haha

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Typical men honestly!!😂
Always too lazy to do things but expect us women to do all the work for them...jeez, give us a break!
We cook, we clean, we look after your kids...yet we still don’t get no back rubs or any type of massages. So unfair!! 😭

Answer

Stop making breakfast for him

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Train em 😂 jk jk. Before my fiancé and I got together he didn’t even know how to massage (idk if his previous gf’s never cared for that or what) 2 years later he’s still not that great at back massages - I still guide him but I’ll be damned if he can’t give a damn good booty massage 😍😂😂 
Make it into a fun thing - I started at as bribing to get him to learn how to massage. If he massages you then massage him in special places or go down on him, etc.

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I’m so lucky my boyfriend rubs my back every night until I fall asleep lmao I’m so spoiled. He’s been doing it for almost two years straight and says he’s just so used to it I wake up and he’s knocked out with his hand still on my back 😂 then he wakes up and rubs my back again

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My husband literally rubs my shoulder & back every night. I don’t even have to ask for it anymore when I row over on my side he goes for it. He’s the best. Lol

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Omg seriously! I am a sucker for getting my back lightly scratched, or my hair played with. I always ask for this or a back rub, & I get, "Tomorrow night babe, I promise" 🤦‍♀️ The ONLY times that I get a "backrub" without asking if when he wants some. He'll put A LOT of lotion on my back, rub it around for 2 seconds then "accidently" get it on my butt, so then he moves on to my butt 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

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My fella the same but I shouldn’t do nice thing in hope to get something back. I do it because I love it.

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I feel like I'm in the minority for this because my husband tried to rub my back, but it's not something I enjoy. For some strange reason, rubbing my back makes me vomit. Even a light rub. I don't get it.

Why don’t men rub our backs!

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