Me and my long term boyfriend have decided to finally have sex (it’s been 3 years). He’s not virgin but I am and I also have had endometriosis sine I was 11. Any type of penetration hurts a lot, but with that being said I want to try and have sex. I trust him and I’m completely comfortable with him. I’m just really nervous that it will hurt to the point where I have to say no and then what do I do live with out having sex?
Does anyone have any tips on how to make it easier or less painful or really any tips in general for dealing with endometriosis ?
Also because I see a ton of people judging each other on here. Me and my boyfriend are both over 18 and he’s not pressuring me.
We did have sex. He was very gentle and understanding and thankfully it wasn’t as painful as I had thought it was going to be. It was actually really enjoyable for both of us and I’m happy I went through with it instead of being to scared to tried it.