I was dating this guy for about a month. He would tell me that he had sex before but that it was very basic. When we would make out or foreplay, he wouldn’t know what to do. We had sex for the first time about a month into the relationship, he didn’t know what the fuck to do and he didn’t finish. Turns out, he was a virgin and didn’t want to man up to it. I broke it off with him. A week afterwards, we stayed friends and made out and did everything a couple would without a label. I told him multiple times I didn’t want to be with him for the simple fact that he lied to me. He still, as I’m writing this, tries to prove his trust, that it was only that one lie. I refuse to give in to it. We had sex again recently but he won’t finish. I give head, and he moans and twitches but can’t finish. During sex, he has a very animalistic moan that I absolutely love, makes me come in minutes, but he still can’t finish. How do I help this problem? He feels terrible and puts himself down for it. I assure him that I enjoy sex a lot without cumming sometimes. Is it really normal though? Moral of the story, I took his virginity, we still have sex on occasion, when I’m not at college.