recently my relationship with my boyfriend is tough. we’ve been together for five years and we always work out our issues. it started when I came out a month ago as bisexual. i told him first because I wanted to do the right thing by our relationship, but when I tell him he ignored me the next day. I told him it’s okay if he needed time because I could understand how he could get upset and he responds with “Listen I understand but when you tell me you like girls and look at them or whatever made me want to rip my fucking dick off and that made me feel great and now I got two genders to worry about you” that hurt me so much, because coming out was the hardest thing I’ve ever done. He wanted to tell his friend who has hurt me mentally so many ways that I’m bisexual and I told him no because that’s my life and he can’t tell people that I dont trust. The only person who was there for me was this guy in my philosophy class, he’s so sweet and one day I got drunk and we were together and talking and that guy kissed me. I don’t know if I should stay in the relationship I’m in or to leave I need to figure this out