He doesn’t want a baby and I should “get over it”

Karen

We’ve been married 10 years, together for 12. In marriage counseling when we talked about goals he said we could starting trying between 5-8 yrs. I’ve been wanting a baby for about 4-5 yrs. last year he said that 32 was the year. I am 32 and 6 months and now he is saying another 1-2 years?! WTF. I kind of get if because his family has been living with us off and on but it still sucks and I feel crushed. I just got a baby shower invite for his cousin who’s been married for 2 years and he gave me a hard time for being “resentful” and that I should “get over it.” What am I supposed to-do with that?