When was the first time you realized you were kinky? What made you realize it?

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Comment how you realized you were kinky, what your first kinks were, and how old you were when you discovered them!

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I don’t think there was a moment that I realized. It was always there a bit, and once my sexuality became an actual thing, I had fantasies. And almost immediately, I knew they were different. It would be a year later before I could actually define it, and two more to become healthy and knowledgeable.

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What made me realize it was a guy i was dating would grab my thighs so hard they would bruise, and i loved it. Was so proud of them and wanted more all over my body. So i asked him for more and he gladly obliged. I had a tumblr so i used that to explore impact play and fell in love, and tumblr helped me discover and explore other kinks as well.

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I was in my early 20s.  With my ex husband.   He introduced me to the Joy's of having my ass slapped HARD during sex.  It just went from there.

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During some heated make-out sessions with my 2nd boyfriend. A few times he was on top of me holding my hands/wrists at about my shoulder height, and he lingered a second or two putting some weight on them. Turns out I reaaaally like to be held down. He didn’t even realize that he’d started doing that-we hadn’t really started discussing kinks yet. Later on, I remember looking at him as we were walking in a park and I nonchalantly/teasingly said 
“I know about your control fetish”
He was speechless. 
He thought he was hiding it well. 
I feel like a horney-ass Sherlock Holmes over here 😎

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Combo from reading romance books and they would get me so worked up along with a night of crazy sex. That night was 10 years ago and I remember it like it was yesterday.  Hubby does not know of this night since it was long before him.

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i kind of threw around the word kinky as a teen without rly knowing what i meant. 
it actually took me until mid 20s to identify with a bdsm or kink stuff which is funny. i learned about petplay because i always liked being a pet. shortly after i learned about ddlg when i googled whether i was weird for calling my master ‘daddy’
i’ve also expanded my knowledge on bondage and other kinks i like since then. 
but i didn’t lose my virginity until 25 so i’m a little slow to do things

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I always hated my head being pushed down because I was told “he’s just being an asshole” and thought that’s all it was... until I started to enjoy it 😂 I always used to yell at my bf and he was so confused when I started asking for it!

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WhT made me realize it? My teenage affair.

When was the first time you realized you were kinky? What made you realize it?

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