8 Weeks Pregnant ready to quit my current job with no back up (Long) need advice!šŸ˜«

Alexandra ā€¢ Wife & Mama of 2 ā™„ļø

Hi everyone! I sincerely need your advice....I started working as an office manager in training for a dental practice Feb. of this year. I have just about had it with this company! But Iā€™m pregnant and the money is OK 3k a month

I work long hours Mon-Sat. They donā€™t give benefits to their employees. I am the only one working there currently besides the dentists! So what I am doing is, managing, marketing, billing, front desk, training staff that quit because they dislike the company! And Dental assisting at that!!!! And these people know I am pregnant and being very inconsiderate of this...especially with me taking days off for appointments they make me feel guilty for it.

Another thing is that I have noticed they do not know how to budget and they are running out of money.....on top of our practice being slow with patients lately and they seem to put so much pressure on me! When itā€™s really the dentist I work for that is incredibly rude to the patients! I try to make patients happy and do what I can do so this office succeeds but if the dentist is not on the same page (which she ignores my input) whatā€™s the point! Why do so much give great customer service when in the end the patients sees a horrible dentist!!!!!! And never comes back!!!

They also make me travel for ā€œmanagement trainingā€ out of state which is Scientology based and ITS SO CREEPY! They force me to go because they get blackmailed by the church of Scientology if donā€™t pay their theyā€™re employees to go to their messed up training.

Iā€™ve had it but I have a baby on the way and the money is good for our family, (for us 6.5k combined)I donā€™t have a back up but I have honestly reached my breaking point after arguing with the company owner that I am the one to blame as to why the office is not growing (btw we are a new office). Which is FALSE because I have stats of our office making 3x more the production last year since I started managing the office. And they ended up telling me I donā€™t deserve to be manager and to be something else like...PR!!!!!! WTF?!? The money isnā€™t worth it to me anymore. I donā€™t need to prove myself to these dumb people anymore as to what Iā€™m worth. I rather just leave.

I cried yesterday because I never wanted to quit a job so badly in my life. I have a baby on the way and I just cannot deal with the stress and the demands and since Iā€™ve been upset Iā€™ve been cramping all day. Iā€™m worried the cramping is from stress. Ive cramped so far in my pregnancy but to to where it lasts all day and night.......I do not have a back up but Iā€™ve already started applying. I want to give my two week notice tomorrow anyway. But I feel like my fiancĆ© is worried about me finding a job. Do I take the risk with no back up and hope find something better soon....no rude comments please...really depressed and stressed šŸ˜“ā™„ļø thanks ladiesšŸ˜˜šŸ˜˜šŸ˜˜