Sex Drive.

Help.

If my fiancé had it his way, we would have sex once a day, every day. Now, if I had it MY way, we would have sex once a week, haha! Maybe 2 weeks.

I'm trying to meet his needs, and we usually do it every 2-3 days. But it's leaving me feeling, disengaged. There's not enough time in between, for me to want to be in the mood. 2-3 days goes by, and he's dying....but to me, 2-3 days feels like yesterday, and I just never want to do it.

It's causing a huge strain in our relationship because either he's happy and I'm not, or I'm happy and he's not. This is just sexually, not in general. We have a pretty good relationship otherwise, but we've been struggling with this for a little over 2 years. I don't take any medications, and I'm the mother of our 2 year old son.

I feel like seeing a sex councilor is in my future, but I was just curious if any of you experience, or have experienced, what I'm going through/dealing with. It's frustrating. Sex is important, but I just don't want to! Thoughts?