I’m sixteen and currently a junior in high school. I’ve been in relationships in the past, but nothing ever really stuck or went beyond the occasional kiss here and hand holding here and there.

I want to have sex, but I don’t want to waste my virginity, as stupid as it sounds. I don’t really know what to do, seeing as the boys at my school aren’t really interested, and I don’t know if I’ll even have the chance to be in a relationship any time soon.

If I just have sex with someone I think is nice, or just someone in general, do you think that’s bad? Do you think I’m wasting my virginity or should I just do it?