Looking for friends to keep my mind busy

Hi guys maybe this is silly but I’m looking for people on a similar situation as me or friends who have been where I am. My wife (married 3 years been together 7) told me this summer she’s “checked out” and she doesn’t want to try any more. We experienced a miscarriage last Nov ( we have two boys 5 &11$and she said she stopped caring then. We are separated for two weeks now and o feel like I am crumbling. She has moved into our sons room and I am just looking for advice and people who might turn to friends and help me stay busy.