Okay so I know this is something I have to work out with my partner I just want to see if any of you have gone through something similar

So even before I knew we were having a boy I brought up circumcising and was instantly shut down because he is not I felt the same way about vaccines so as time has been going on we talked more about it and it seemed like we had compromised on circumcising the baby as well as getting his shots I brought up that I wanted to call the insurance and see if it can be done at the hospital when he’s born and let me just say he went all the way off saying he doesn’t think we should it again and just being super aggressive because we haven’t decided yet I just think it’s really unfair that I compromised on vaccines even though I have my reservations I respect that he’s a parent as well and he says he will keep fighting me on it honestly I’m at the point where I don’t want to even bring it up again I’m just going to have it done this is my son to I am the one who has been through pain and suffering this pregnancy and I’m going to be the one in labor so why is my decision not respected it just really upsets me that he has been to none of my appointments(only ultrasounds) at 30w never asks how the baby is doing doesn’t really show any interest about this baby at all but wants to make all the decisions which is very unhealthy for our relationship and parenting I just want my decisions to be respected just like I do his but I am not budging on this one also my MIL does not support and already told me she doesn’t want to here anything about it so I can’t even vent to her about how her son is acting am I being unreasonable or do I at least deserve to make this decision as his mother it just really pisses me off that he doesn’t care until I have a different opinion and please do not come at me about not wanting vaccines it’s my decision but btw he will be vaccinated

* kind of annoyed people think that because I don’t have a penis I don’t have a say and I’m sorry but the labor isn’t a factor in the decision I mentioned it because he doesn’t even care hasn’t cared about anything but this so why does he get to make the decision but can’t make any effort for anything else and I know I will regret not getting it done that’s why it’s such a big deal and why I compromised on vaccines even if I didn’t my baby will be fine without them as are the rest of my siblings with no shots