I am 21 weeks pregnant and I was around 20lbs overweight when we got pregnant. In the first trimester I only gained a pound because I was so sick but since then I have gained 15. Because of before my belly seems like it has a layer of giggly fat on it still and it makes me feel like I am not going to have a tight normal pregnancy belly which in turn makes me feel pretty down about my body. I know everyone is different and I should watch what I eat, I am not going to try to lose weight, it is just frustrating. Has anyone else felt like this and moved past it? I am so incredibly excited for my baby girl and just want to really enjoy every moment.