dont have a bond w/ my 3 mo?

I have a 14 month old and a 3 month old. I care about my 3 month old, but I dont really have a bond w/ her? I dont care to hold her or take pictures of her, but i will tend to her needs. Is this normal? With my first I ALWAYS wanted to hold her and had over 500+ in my phone before we even left the hospital.