Advice and help please

Zerenity • 28. Arizonan. Army Wife 💍
I'm going to see a female OBGYN on Friday only because I don't feel comfortable with a male OBGYN anymore. I'm going to let her know that my boyfriend and I are TTC and I know it's now cycle 4, and there are some issues I'm concerned about. I'm 21 and he's 26 and I honestly don't want to be judged for wanting a family. We both work full time, we can provide a home, and so on. What did your doctor recommend to you to do when you were TTC? 
Anything helps I'm just nervous.