Play dates with unvaccinated children

We are choosing to vaccinate. However we have several friends/family who have chosen not to. We LOVE these children and their families,one of the parents is my own sister. However, with diseases such as chicken pox being extremely contagious as early as 6-9 days before showing the first symptoms,we do not want to put our infant at risk. We have family who have chosen to completely seclude their children from my unvaccinated nieces and nephews,as well as the rest of the family who is in regular contact with them. We think this is extremely over reacting. However we are considering postponing play-dates and close quarters until we’ve had our vaccines. What has everyone else decided?

***Not looking for any bashing,we’re simply curious on everyone’s decisions. Any comments bullying anyone pro-vax or anti will be reported.