I've been having car trouble lately but have been waiting on my fiance to go on call for work so I could use his jeep he wouldn't need while my car is being repaired. Last week his mother's car broke down because she just refuses to do general maintenance. He went on call today so I stopped by to pick up the jeep and explained as soon as my car is repaired I wouldn't need it. I didn't even make it home and his mom starts throwing a childish fit saying she needed his car and he let me use it instead of her. My response is she has another means of transportation to and from work and I don't. The Jeep is on my car insurance. I am going to be your wife and I believe that sometimes I need to be prioritised over your mother in situations like this. If I can't get to work we can't afford our bills and house and a wedding. She has another way to get to work!

Of course I'm a terrible person for saying I should be top priority. Well my thought is this... We are not going to tip toe around her feelings with every decision we make for our future together.

So my fiance sends us a group message saying that her and I need to figure it out and he's not picking sides. Not even a minute later I get a text from her saying horrible things about my family and I. I just want to take him away from her and I always choose to do the opposite of what she wants. Every situation she had to play the victim. I sent back a response being kind explaining the situation with my car to her and she replies with a book long message about my religious views. All of this over me using a car instead of her when I pay for it.

I'm really at a loss right now with how to handle this situation because I don't want to cause a problem between my fiance and I over something this ridiculous. 🤯😤🤯