We tried for 19 months with our first. My husband had low motility sperm, but lots of it so doctors said we should be fine and eventually it happened for us. Our little girl turns 4 in December. Had been trying for 16 months for baby number 2. I started to prepare myself for the fact maybe it won't happen a 2nd time. My husband is 10 years older, 45....maybe his motility got worse. We got a positive test result 3 days ago. I'm only 5 weeks so fingers crossed it progresses well. I recently lost 2 stone and increased fitness through Crossfit. Maybe that helped me. Can't believe it x