My first day back to work was October 1st. My son will be 3 months on the 9th. I haven't been this tired since he was born! I'm just mentally exhausted!

While I was off, I got up with my son every night, took care of him 95% of the time and did pretty much all the housework while my husband worked since I was home. I had no problem doing all that. But after 3 months of doing that, I'm so fed up that now my husband doesn't help at all. I know I should have had him help more from the start but it was just easier for me to do it myself. He can't use the excuse that he's at work all day because now i am too. I've asked for help before and he does usually help me with the baby but household stuff he just ignores. I load the dishwasher with dirty dishes and 30 seconds later he puts his dishes into the sink, he leaves his laundry on the floor half the time, his shoes are always in the middle of the floor, when he vacuums he just sucks up the dog hair clumps, leaving 90% of the floor untouched. I feel like me trying to be a nice wife and take care of things while I was home led him to now not do anything. He does sometimes get mad at me when i ask for help saying I'm being naggy and annoying.

How can I get him to help out more so I'm not being a single married woman? I even made a list of chores that need to be done each day and went through it with him and he still is oblivious to helping out. I'm just so frustrated!

Side note: he complains how we have no sex life or how our sex is boring but I'm over here thinking, maybe if you'd help out more I'd be less tired and have more time! But he just doesn't get it!