Okay so, I have no idea what to do. I’ve been with this guy, and he is so dreamy! He is a premed student, in the honors society, he plays tennis, a complete gentlemen, and I feel so good when I’m with him. But he has a bit of a traumatic past, well more like a VERY traumatic past. Today he’s dealing with depression, anxiety, and to me it looks like ptsd as well. How do I deal with that? I mean like, i care about him like I’ve never cared for anyone, and I want him to be okay, but lately he’s been having a really tough time and I have no idea what to do. I want to help him so bad, but i seem to not be able to help at all. I feel so useless, i just want him to be okay. I truly want him to be okay, with all my heart. I’ve told him that, I told him that even if we don’t work out in the end, I’ll still want him to be okay, and that I’ll be there. And it’s true. If what he needs right now is a friend relationship and not a romantic one, it will hurt, but I’d do it without blinking. I truly care for him. What can I do? Please help me sisters.