Complicated relationship

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I have a question me and my boyfriend been together for some months but it’s complicated between us and I moved out. So, me and him haven’t seen each other for a couple weeks so I’ve finally seen him today and he brought a few of my stuff back to my house and he wanted to be intimate/give him head. Then he wanted to see my phone and was going through it. I let him see my phone. And, later he wanted me to spend the night with him but, I refused. Ladies/ guys did I do the right thing or I was wrong??