Moms who occasionally give their baby a bottle, when did they hold it on their own?

My husband seems to think that our daughter should soon be trying to hold hers but I told him she might do that late or not at all since she gets the boob most of the time (only gets bottles at daycare)

He keeps comparing her to our nephew who can hold his and I have to remind him that he is 2 months older and exclusively bottle fed (which I’m assuming makes a difference with this, but it might not)