ok so today I'm 39 weeks and 1 day , I went to the doctor and I'm only a finger tip dilated , which kind of made me want to cry because I've been walking so much, having sex etc , I've done everything to get this baby to come because I'm in so much Ain with false labor and strong BH. I have 2 boys and they were both a week and a half late which didn't bother me because I didn't have any type of pain until the day they were actually born. but this go round is so different , I feel miserable , I cant even eat I've lost around 10 pounds in the past 2 weeks . I'm just always in pain or have nauseas again . and they won't induce until 2 weeks after the due date :-( any suggestions on how to help my body get things going. I know dilation doesn't mean much , I was dilated to a 1 for 3 to 4 weeks with my boys and went into labor