So my question is if you and your husband or wife separate you or your husband have an affair would you still consider it cheating? I personally would anyone that is not in their right mind in my opinion is crazy to not consider it cheating I wouldn’t consider it cheating if he was just my boyfriend. Maybe I take marriage seriously. I’m a good person and wouldn’t do that Because if you’re separating there’s a reason for that and mine was because he was “too stressed out” and needed a break with our marriage with our children he just wanted to have a party life! Well I’m at home with the kids working a full-time job being faithful to him understanding that okay he needs a break and he goes off and cheats on me. Not with one I know of two but I’m pretty sure three other women 🤦🏽‍♀️ sorry if i don’t make scene lol I’m soo irritated stupid bastard