From the u.s to England! College sweetheart💕👫
My boyfriend and I met at college last year around this time. He came to Oregon from Idaho to play soccer at the college 30 miles away from my home town. This was my second year and his first( 19-18 yes he’s younger) we met and instantly connected it was like talking to someone I’ve known my whole life. We spent the next day or two together hanging out having fun, we went on a run with our teams and he purposely left his cleats in my car so that I would HAVE to come bring them back and hang out. After that we hung out for the next two weeks everyday and We became best friends in the matter of second, feelings started to develop honestly right off the bat, but him being a first year college boy he didn’t know what he wanted so I friend zoned him until he could realize that I’m not gonna be waiting around for someone to choose if they want me or not, so I was either gonna have a best friend or a boyfriend. so he took a maybe two days went back home (constantly texting me) to figure it out and then came back and asked me to be his girlfriend (I said not right now) because he just got back and seemed like he was jumping into it. We continue to go on dates and got to know each other. He come to my home town picked me up and we went to this rock that over looks the whole town and we sat up there and the park for 6 hours just talking about everything and anything. This was the day I say yes to being his girlfriend. We spent the next 4 months together pretty much everyday or every other day. Then about 2 months into our relationship he got offered to go to an soccer development academy in England in September of 2018. Us being so new into our relationship we had to make some serious decisions. End it, stay together and cross that bridge when we come to it or go all out and do long distance. While it was pretty scary because we didn’t know if we could stand long distance we came to realize that we didn’t want to be without each other and no time or distance could stop the love we have for each other. So we decided to do long distance. We thought we had the rest of the school year but then changed to spring term and then again to leaving Christmas break and not coming back..(only 2weeks away) so we spent every last seconded together until he left to go to work in Montana making money for school. Four months into our relationship we started long distance. Always will be the hardest see ya laters. 8 month in to distance we’ve seen each other twice because of our schedules but going strong as ever. I’m not gonna lie there were a couple times were we didn’t know how to come back up from but we figured it out. Lots of tear, heartbreak, fears, misunderstandings, long days, night, endless FaceTimes and phones calls but every time no matter how bad it gets we’ve come out on top. we realized nothing is more important then us not being able to talk about it. So we run to each-other. days away from him leaving the country for at least 6 months, 6 days away from our one year and 16 way from our visit. We are still head over heels hopelessly in love with each other and continue to fall more and more in love as we continue to grow together.
Update!!
Its been really busy the last Month or so! It's been about 3 weeks sense he left the country and this see ya later was diffently the hardest one yet. I cried🙈. Our trip was perfect! We grew closer and closer. Celebrated our one year! Just a little late because it was 8/20 but it was perfect. I got him soccer cleats so he can always feel me with him no matter where he is in the world and it was how we started talking. I also got him a bond touch bracket so if I were to touch it here he'd get a vibration from me in england. It's so nice, especially sense we can't text all the time. He made me a video of all our pictures and videos From the past year with our songs(I cried, emotions were high) it was breathing💕 I didn't think I could fall more in love with a him anymore then I already had, but boy was I wrong. A year later he never stops showing me how much he cares no matter if its a ocean or a couple hundred miles between us. After everything we knew nothing could stop us. But reality hit and life got pretty tuff and we both got in a rut going from waking up together and spending every minute Together, to go to bed. For two weeks to adjusting to not waking up or going to bed next to each other and spending everyday together as well as an 8 hour time difference, school for the both of us, friends, family, life. For him Getting adapted to another country, as well as school, teammates, coaches, classmate, roommates, friends, soccer, training and getting everything set with school and life in another country. Things got a little bumpy. But we came together no matter how hard it was and worked it out together. As of 10/20 will be together a month of over seas distance and a year and two months of our relationship. I just found out a couple days ago he's coming home for Christmas!!💕💕😩 I absolutely can't wait. The next Couple of months are gonna be great. My birthday, his birthday, family birthdays, Halloween, Thanksgiving, Christmas and new years. We are still learning how to adjust to England and the US but we're both in this together as we grow more together as well as individuals. I can never fell the actually distance between us because it feels like hes always with me.💕
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