Rubbing as masturbation??

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I’m 18 now but at a very young age I started to rub my clit on pillows and that’s how I’ve “cummed” ever since. I started having sex 9 months ago and never cum during sex but I’ll cum when I rub on a pillow. Has ANYONE else done this? And if so how did you stop and how did you start cumming during sex? 
(I feel really isolated and ashamed that this is how I masturbate I’ve googled and know it’s normal in young girls but it’s still super embarrassing for me and I’m looking for support!)

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It’s ok and very normal! Just try to rub yourself with your hand while having sex and that should do it!

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Totally normal, when i have sex with my bf i get on top of him and sorry for the tmi but “ride” him and it help bc my clit is rubbing against his skin area which creates friction and i always orgasm

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Get him or you to rub your clit while having sex

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Same here girl!! When I first started having sex I didn’t orgasm at all for awhile because me and my boyfriend were new to it and we didn’t understand each other I guess you can say. Slowly he would start to play with me and guys are clueless they don’t know how to play with your clit you have to teach them how you like it and show them how you do it to yourself, of course you have to be super comfortable with him to be able to show him how and that took me about 1 year into our relationship to finally show him and tell him that I would never orgasm lol!! Now what I like to do is start off missionary and I play with myself while he’s going in and out and I orgasm super fast 🔥 it takes me no longer than 10 minutes!! It’s amazing. Learn to communicate with your partner and try playing with yourself while he’s on you maybe that’ll help! ⚠️ TMI

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Normal!! I stared at a young age too!! Idk why if just happened lol .. but I’ve had my boyfriend do anal on me with his finger while I masturbated ... and I got my self a little toy to play with while we are having sex .. when he tried to play with my clit .. MEHHH don’t really feel it lol .. I have to do it 💁🏻‍♀️ but do not worry!! It’s normal and you are not the only girl in the world who has done it 😁💕

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I started doing that when I was young too! Don't worry! That is actually what your clit is for! Try positions where you can run your clit on him, like him sitting up against the headboard or on the couch with you facing him on his lap. Don't be afraid to touch it yourself in any position!

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This is exactly how I started masturbating when I was young and sometimes as an adult I still do it. 
I've been sexually active for a year, I'm 22. Knowing your own body and how to please it is #1 on the priority list for getting comfortable enough to orgasm during sex. 
#1 explore your body. try rubbing your clit, clitoral hood if clit is too sensitive, inner labia (with a lube or your natural juices if you are wet), and if comfortable attempt fingering yourself with clean hands and clipped nails. 
• there are lots of women that don't orgasm from internal stimulation aka sex or fingering. So that leaves external stimulation. 
#2 the more you know about #1 the better you can guide and involve your sexual partners. I know it feels embarrassing but masturbating in front of your partner can help show them how to please you. 
#3 keep it clean. 
• When touching yourself make sure you and your partner have clean hands to avoid infections. 
• As for keeping your lady parts clean, I like using Summers Eve wash because it balances your PH level and is very good for sensitive skin. It comes it travel wipes too for on the go. 
Keeping everything clean is important to avoid infections and to keep your natural lubricant as clean and abundant as possible. More moisture, more pleasure.
#4 Lube. It's a big deal. If you aren't wet enough, sex is going to be so-so. Or even painful. So don't feel like less of a woman if you need to supplement some extra moisture with a product. I personally am very easily wet but I can't usually produce enough to keep sex a smooth performance due to my husbands well endowed cock. Know your lubes. Water based requires reapplication throughout sex, but Silicone based lube lasts longer, feels natural, easy to apply, but requires you to wash off because it's waterproof you'll need a safe soap (like Summers Eve). Silicone based lube can also stain clothes and sheets. Find what works for you. 
Sex Positions For External Stimulation
• Spooning. While he penetrates you from behind, you can either touch your own clit and labia or your partner can. This position is my new favorite lately because it's the best of both worlds and nobody goes into muscle fatigue being on top haha. 
• Missionary. This position can give lots of external stimulation depending on your comfort. If you don't notice external stimulation like this, try placing pillows under your hips, pillows under your head, raising your legs higher up hugging his sides or a combination of all of them. 
• Lap Sitting. Whether in a chair, or propped up against the headboard, ride his lap and make sure he's sitting up straight because the muscle leading down his pelvis will stimulate your clit and labia while you grind. 
These are just my experiences I hope they help you!!

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I had this SAME problem. My bf thought it was weird but we did research and since I aswell started masturbating at such a young age I got used to having my orgasm that way. Totally normal!

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Totally normal,I think the statistics say 80% of women need clit stimulation to cum

Rubbing as masturbation??

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