Did your relationship with your MIL improve after having a baby?

My MIL is so fake. She low key doesnt like me. shes one of those that thinks her son is gold and no one is good enough for him, he can do no wrong. She started off salty, tried to stop our wedding 🙄, eventually she came around and was great.a few months into being married my husband and I had a horrible fight. I left and went to stay at a hotel. the next day I came back and we talked just a bit but not much. later that night I went out to the store and when I arrived back home, my mil was pulling up at the same time! she had driven up at the way from Florida to Alabama. my husband never mentioned he had called her and had her on the way. I was furious bc they like to gang up on u. she always on his side no matter what. I needed to leave and calm down. he begged me to stay but I insisted on leaving. as I gathered my belongings, I went outside to find no cars. my husband took our cars and hid them somewhere so that I couldn't leave! I was LIVID. i asked her if she could call him and tell him what he was doing was wrong and she said no. ok... i went all the way crazy and destroyed the house. she then proceeded to call the cops on me for destroying MY property and called their entire family and told them that I was crazy but intentionally left out and that I tried to leave in peace but he spitefully hid the cars to keep me there. theres a lot more to it but basically from that incidednt her true feelings for me were revealed. looking back, I shouldn't have reacted that way but I was so angry that I was essentially being held against my will and they were ganging up on me. me and my mil never really spoke in the same way. I tried to talk to her and let her know that it bothered me how she handled it and that she tried to only tell part of the story to make me look bad but didnt share what his part was and really she shouldn't have called the whole family anyway but rather than listen and work thru it, she told me to get over it so since then we are cordial always but it's been fake. fast forward my husband and i definitely grew and are in a good space but his mom only ever calls me if my husband isn't answering her calls and shes looking for him. we recently had a baby and now she is always calling me saying she wants to check on me and baby 😒 but I dont want shit to do with her. she never checked on me once while pregnant, has never called to speak to me, unless shes looking for my husband. if I try to check on her she is short and only asked about her son. like once I asked her how she was and she said she was fine, had I spoken to my husband (who was away in training)... not I'm fine how are you? etc. each time we spoke she would only talk about my husband. maybe I'm crazy but I just want her to keep the same energy shes always had and stop talking to me. keep talking to your so✌ 😤

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