My boyfriend will not clean up after himself. He will destroy our room clothes everywhere, garbage on the floor, sheets off the bed, won’t clean up his dishes. I’m the polar opposite I need my room clean before I go to sleep, I’m very organized. It literally drives me insane if I ask him to clean it up “I act like his mother” but if I say nothing at all it won’t be cleaned up for weeks!!!!! What should I do? How else could I tell him to clean up without sounding like his mom🙄