So I decided to get my DD ears pierced she is 13 months old and my finally is currently out of town for work so of course i asked him if it was okay but his mother took it upon herself after i told her i was going to get it done to act like it was a major secret i was withholding from him and messaged him “if he knew what i was doing” and then to tell me I should have waited for him to be here for that.... its none of her damn business what we do with our daughter and if he said it was okay then damn it its okay she is this very overly protective person and dramatic like she refuses to set babies down because it’ll make look bad to them and wont let them cry even a little because it means something is terribly wrong and gets mad that we go out with our own kid everywhere we dont drink or smoke so we always do things family oriented and she gets mad about it because she didn’t get to see her that day