Is it disrespectful or OK for your man to look at other women when your in public together or am I just being petty? Honestly in my opinion it's disrespectful and not OK. If he respects you then he shouldn't be doing it! Look all you want when I'm not around. I understand human nature in men, but I think it is common sense when your with your woman in public. C, Mon. Seriously? My feelers just get hurt each and everyone. I have tried so hard to let it go. Believe me! He is honest ab9ut it and says if a girl has a nice butt or tots I'm gonna look! Hell no! Ugghhh