Till death do us part?? 🧐

Question

I see ALOT of marriage post on this app, mostly people asking “stay or leave?” 
The comments are usually split 50/50 
My question is does everything come to an end? Or Can a married couple make a complete comeback fix their problems and be truly happy again? 
Share in the comments personal experiences, stories, what you have noticed
I just wanna know is getting married in this day and age is even worth it anymore! 
Cause me personally do not see myself getting married.

Answer

I mean it depends on the situation. I completely agree that if it’s something small then I would work as hard as I can to stay. However a lot of women on here are getting abused or assaulted in their relationship which is not okay and never will be okay. They should leave without a second thought

Answer

My husband and I have always had the same idea on marriage: The only reasons to get a divorce are adultery, addiction, or abuse.

Answer

When my SO and I first got together we were just friends with benefits. The only thing I asked of him was to be smart about who he slept with and to use protection because my health would also be at risk. 
A few months down the line we decided to date exclusively. It lasted a month before he ended things bc he was wanting other people and didn't think it was fair to me if we continued while he felt that way. It broke my heart. But 6 months, and a few relationships later, we started back up. 
I forgave him because he was honest with me. I never had to find out the truth from other people or snoop though his stuff to know what he was doing or how he felt. Plus we were both very young at the time so I couldn't blame him for being human and not knowing what or who he wanted. 
So anyways we were back to being FWB and it seemed that was all we would ever be. Which I was fine with cause this was literally the best dick I've ever had and he was a great friend to me. But I started dating a real catch of a man. And it didn't take long for the guilt to set in, so I told my FWB that it was over bc I wanted more and my bf deserved to be in an exclusive and loyal relationship. I made it clear that I didn't have any bad feelings about how our relationship had been and that I wanted to have a final goodbye this way we both know it's the last fuck, the last kiss, the last time. 
Somehow this was a wake up call to him. (Probably because it was one of the best fucks we had ever had 💁🏼) He told me he didn't deserve me, and that I deserved more. But he couldn't leave, because he had this gut feeling that if he did it would be a mistake that he'd regret for the rest of his life. He asked me to give him another chance even though he didn't deserve it. I told him I was scared it would be just like last time. He said he couldn't promise that it wouldn't but that he was serious about trying.
Idk why but I gave him that chance. And I don't regret it. I told him he'd have one month to prove to me that he could be loyal and during that month I would be single. (Meaning I could date and he couldn't) He agreed and passed my little test. Not long after this I moved in with him and we've been solid ever since.
For us, our past and our mistakes, made our relationship stronger. We trust each other 100% because we know that if the other were unhappy they'd say so. Yes, we still have arguments. Yes, we've had ups and downs. But no relationship is perfect all the time. This all happened 5 years ago, this year he proposed, and next year we'll be getting married.
He's cheated and I've cheated but when asked what we want the answer is each other. I can't say that it will never happen again. But I'm confident that he would not cheat on me when we're married. And if he did then I would do what we've always done and talk it out. Maybe that makes me naive or crazy or whatever but I know he's the one for me and I for him. 
So for anyone here that's looking for answers about what to do when your husband cheats this is the key; take a deep breath (maybe get away from everything by having a spa day or whatever you have to do to clear your head), and ask yourself what do you want girl? What makes you happy? And that's your answer.

Answer

I don’t believe anyone gets married thinking they will have to make a decision to leave or stay. At least I didn’t. If you believe in marriage then go into it positively. If you don’t think it’s for you then that’s ok too. 🤷‍♀️

Answer

I love my partner and want to be with them for as long as our time together is meant to be but I personally don't believe people are meant to be with one person forever.

Till death do us part?? 🧐

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