When my ex left in 2016 a friend of mine suggested I talk to the counselor she was going to because I was struggling with money and his new gf sending me "digs" about their relationship anytime she could. (If I had a question about a bill he and I made together I had to text HER) This counselor saw the tears and the hurt and was wonderful. 2 years later I decided to find a counselor again because I was sucked into all his lies again and now that he has walked out of my life again I need to learn how to trust again. (The 1 I was going to is no longer local) I googled and picked 1. The 1st meeting was good. She asked me a bunch of questions and asked me to start from the beginning so I did. I made the next appointment and when we went in the room said asked "what do you want to talk about today?" I'm not the counselor! This time I felt like she made this out to be a joke...like I didn't need to be there. I made my next appointment and canceled it. How do I call and say I dont think shes a good match? Anyone else have a counselor that acted this way?