First ultrasound?

Mikayla
Quite frankly I'm kind of ticked off at my doctor because with my last pregnancy (that I lost) they refused to do an ultrasound until I was 20 weeks! But I'm being told that some people get them at 8 weeks! I asked if they could check my last pregnancy because something wasn't right and they said there would be nothing to see and that you can't hear the heartbeat or anything until 20 weeks at least. Was my nurse crazy or am I mad about nothing?