How to do the future talk

Niki
I'm finally finishing school and starting to look for full time jobs. My SO and I have been doing great for 7 months - no fights, best friends, only the rare conversation about commitment issues after too much wine. He has a stable job that he has to stay at for at least another 4 years. I don't know if I could or would want to stay in our area for that long if we weren't together. How do I bring up the question of if he thinks it's worth me staying because he sees a future with me without sounding like I'm fishing for a marriage promise? Both of us agree that needs to happen after years of knowing each other and I know if thinks I'm pushing for that now he might run...
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Ka

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Honestly? I'd just communicate all the points you've laid out here. He should understand. Sometimes we don't give men enough credit when it comes to stuff like this.

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Dawn E • Aug 6, 2015
I was going to say the same thing. Or just let him read what you wrote on here.

Br

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Just be honest if he loves you and you love him yall will work it out!😊

Ni

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Tell him how you feel and be okay if hes not on the same page yet.