So my soon to be 20 months old baby girl has been touching her private and sometimes will take a toy to touch it down there (she does not insert anything in there just just use the toy to touch it) I’m really concerned. She started daycare a month ago. She also has a hole as an adult vagina I’m just wondering if that’s normal. I can see inside her hole. Maybe it been there and I never noticed but now I’m freaking out I’m thinking all kind of negative thing has she been fondle/touched at daycare ? Am I being paranoid for no reason ? is it normal? For the 3 days she has been crying to go to sleep she usually goes to sleep by herself and never wake until morning but now she kinda wake in the middle of the night sleepcrying. And she wants to cuddle before bed which she hated. I’m calling the doctor office tomorrow but I wanna hear from you mom