I hate everything about him. I feel like I've made the biggest mistake of my life. I hate him so much I just can't take it. 22 weeks pregnant and have a 3 year old too.i can't take how dumb he is. I used to think he was so smart but once we got married and we had paperwork to do and phone calls to make and bills to pay or furniture to put together or anything, he has no idea how to do anything unless I lead him by the hand in everything. I end up doing everything myself all the time. He's got a horrible memory, he never takes care of things on time. He asks me questions and doesn't listen for my answer. I'm just always talking to myself and having to repeat it over and over and explain everything constantly. It's way too much effort to be near him for more than an hour. He's also super messy. It's like I'm taking care of two children. I can't take it anymore. I feel like I married myself and adopted a huge child to care for.