Is it just my hormones?

Question

I'm 20 weeks pregnant and I am not happy with my s/o at all anymore. He bitches that I don't do everything around the house anymore and he doesn't believe that this pregnancy has been hard on me....  He puts me down about my weight and I feel like he's been acting shady.  IDK what to do anymore.  I'm lost...

Answer

Honestly, I feel like he’s treating you like crap just from what you’ve said. I don’t even know why you would endure that kind of mental abuse, especially when he puts you down and doesn’t respect you at all. As the mother of his child, he should be giving you the comfort that he’ll genuinely love you despite your body and moods altering. And on top of that, have the patience because you’re trying to cope with your changes and hormones. 
I know I was super insecure while I was pregnant. When you get bigger you realize, your body will never be the same. But throughout my pregnancy my husband assured me and he went as far as understanding that my mood swings were just a part of the hormones running. After I had my daughter, he embraced my extra curves and still to this day, reminds me that he admires my stretch marks and the way my boobs droop a little. 
If he’s putting you down and disrespecting you now, just imagine what he’ll put you through once your little one is here and your insecurities spill over.

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Same here, except my husband doesn't talk to me AT ALL. Not even to bitch. About a year ago he added 2 other side jobs on top of his full time, so the only times I get to see him BEFORE 8:30 PM is on Thursdays and Saturdays. I feel like we're totally disconnected and I just can't shake the feeling that something's changed. I don't know if it's my hormones or what, but I honestly don't think he's happy about our pregnancy anymore. I'm sorry you're going through this.

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I’m almost 19 weeks and I’ve been having a lot of issues with my boyfriend . Like I don’t do anything, this that . I work (barely) part time. I go to college full time (online) which is hard as hell. And I’m pregnant and dealing with BS at my house and at his(he lives with his parents still) We wanna move out ASAP but he’s the only one close to  financially stable. He acts like he doesn’t care about me and barely cares about the pregnancy, and although it was a surprise, he wanted this . It’s definitely tough when you’re not feeling happy . I hope its just our hormones and us over thinking but I don’t believe it is 😕

Is it just my hormones?

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