I've made it pretty clear to my partner I don't want anyone coming up to the hospital while or after we had baby. Mainly cause his mother is desperate and insisting she will be there ( we dont get along very well for reasons like this) But when we get back with baby is gonna be a different story, I want to go home and have people come to us if they want to see her. I'm gonna be tired and ffs I'd of just given birth, I'm not gonna want to travel around and go to other peoples houses all day. But his grandad is quite old and struggles alot and we want him to meet his great grand daughter. His grandad lives across the road from his mum as she cares for him. She will expect us to go to hers and then from there, his whole family will turn up one by one and we will be there all day. I explained this to my partner and he said it will be something he'd have to talk to her about??? What does he mean he will talk to her about it, It's not even something she should get a say in. It just pisses me off, she tries to have a say in everything 🤬🤬