So I recently found out getting pregnant will be very hard and almost impossible to carry to term. But they said my highest hopes are to start trying immediately. I’m 27. I always envisioned myself married first. Weddings take time to plan, way longer than we can wait to start trying. I was wondering if people who got married after kids had any advice or people who got married first have any advice. We are on a time crunch which is what makes this decision so urgent. Also, if anyone had courthouse weddings and didn’t wear their dress or have a big wedding if that felt right or wrong. I’m just not sure what to do. Thanks ladies!